Well…what to say. First of all I don’t like describing myself – so I’m going to outline the basics and tell you that you’re going to have to find out the rest when you meet me!
I’m a young 45…2 grown kids and a granddaughter. My passions are fly fishing and red wine (drinking and learning about). I love to go out for the evening dancing with my girlfriends and burn off some steam. Also love to sit inside on a cold winter night by the fire with a great bottle of wine, good movie and nice guy ;)
I have 2 dogs that are a priority in my life – a golden retriever and a yellow lab. So…love me love my dogs...that’s the way it is. I am an Executive Assistant to senior level executives in a large oil and gas company. Because of my job I have a professional image and demeanour to maintain – I spend time and money on clothes, hair, makeup etc. While I believe true beauty comes from within, let’s face it, there’s something to be said for the package it comes in. I am not miss slim and petite and have been called “curvy” or “ample”…I just say that I carry a few extra pounds. I’m totally fine with that – I’m active and healthy and it doesn’t prevent me from spending 10 hours hiking a mountain stream in search of fish or doing the things I want to do. We’re not all couch potatoes – and I am living proof.
I own my own house and vehicle, am financially independent and “have my sh*ttogether”. I am not into head games, being stood up, being strung along or being lied to. The first time you jam on me for a date will be the last time we talk. I don’t like having what little personal time I have wasted. I don’t want to support anyone and believe in chivalry (i.e. don’t ask me to buy you dinner on our first date, otherwise there won’t be a second). I don’t have very many expectations in a partner right now but honesty, integrity and a true heart are what is required to be with me. I always say that I will answer any question thrown at me – you may not like the answer – but being honest always means you’ll know where you stand with me. You may have the same attitude towards me...I would expect nothing less. I won’t judge you for what you do for a living, where you live or what you wear. But I won’t date anyone whose life’s ambition is to sit around collecting welfare or unemployment. Good personal hygiene is a must – I have it and it’s important to me.
I’m not looking for a relationship or a commitment – I won’t get into my past relationships on here (again…that comes with time) – I’m just looking to make friends with someone I “click” with and see where it goes from there. Friends with benefits type of deal? I won’t be hopping into the sack with you on the first date – I’m not a one night stand or “hook up” type of gal….chemistry is more than a physical attraction – I love a good conversation with an intelligent man who can hold his end of it. So….you’re gonna have to get to know me a little bit no matter what :)
If you think that I’m somebody you might be interested in…message me. But if you’re married or otherwise committed or don’t have a profile picture...don't bother sending me a message. I don’t touch other women’s property and if I think you are then I just won’t respond no matter what. Oh...and most importantly....if you put something out there and think I won't call your bluff...trust me when I say I will. Best be prepared to walk the walk with me - and not just talk the talk. If you live in a fantasy world where your life is better than reality, I don't care to be a part of it.